One Day Resolutions

Me and my emails lately. I received an email from Code Academy mentioning one day resolutions. The email was as it pertains to learning a new skill for coding purposes. When I initially looked at the email, I was struck by the idea of one day resolutions. Each year people set resolutions/wants/goals. We want to be better people. We want to take the necessary steps to better our lives. And if coding is something on your to do list, check out Code Academy. They can teach you step by steps on the basics of html and css. I’m sure it’s more but that is as far as I got. And I didn’t really complete that either. Lol. One day resolution opportunity here. We want to travel more and spend more time with family and friends. The list is endless. The only problem is that we don’t usually accomplish these goals. They fall by the wayside when everyday life starts to take over. We don’t have clear and actionable plans. We decided it is just not worth the effort. Whatever. Nobody is judging you. Well I’m not at least. I haven’t made New Year resolutions in about the last 3 years. The ones I did make I’m sure I’ve never finished/accomplished them.

Now back to the one day resolutions. I’m just really into this. I even started it last year because I wanted to get a head start on this concept. I set a goal of putting up a new blog post for that day. At the end of the day I had completed that task and was happy. I didn’t set one for the next day. And that is the beauty of it. There is no pressure when you hold yourself accountable for the day that you are in. No sense of failure. No beating yourself up. When you say I’m going to go to the gym everyday for 3 months. Seriously?!? Probably not. When you wake up, set your resolution/goal of going to the gym that day and you make it, high-five yourself. If that is the goal for the next day, set it and complete it. And on the day that you just don’t feel like it, set a different goal. And if you are a supreme overachiever, make one day resolutions to take time off. To just do nothing. To say no and mean it. And make sure you do it. No guilt, no shame.

Now I am lazy and I’m not going to sit down and write out a month worth of resolutions. I am going to wake up each day and say what I want to accomplish that day. I think that would work best for me. Now if you are the type of person that needs everything written out, please get a calendar/planner and set a resolution for each day of the month. Still be flexible. If you wanted to cut grass but it’s raining, swap days. Nothing is set in stone. We can be so hard on ourselves. This seems like a way to relieve some of our expectations and to live a more realistic life. For me, it does at least. I know that due to my limitations, I may not be able to get the things I want or I need done. Do you think when I am beating myself up I take that into consideration? Not at all. I am pretty hard on myself. And so are most people. Let’s change that.

Whether you want to learn a new language, clean out the garage or get fit, I think this idea could work for some of you all. If you read my last post about 4 Things by Lisa Nichols this ties right in. Setting micro 90 day goals and celebrating 10 wins at the end of the year applies well with this strategy. Just think, at the end of 365 days going with one day resolutions, you won’t struggle with finding 10 wins. You would have a hard time narrowing it down to just 10. Winning! I am so excited at this new approach to an old system. I am eager to know how many people who are going to give this a try. Please comment below or send me an email at elsims27@yahoo.com. Share a few of your one day resolutions. I am rooting for your successes and want to celebrate them with you. Good luck and God bless. You can and will do it! Happy New Year 2018!!

4 things

What I am about to share with you comes from someone who I follow on YouTube and Facebook. I also signed up to receive her emails. I received this particular email but I kinda skipped over it. One day on YouTube I just felt like I was ready to hear what she had to say. Let me tell you, Lisa Nichols don’t play. She says what you need to hear in a way that can really shake you up. She does it with love and clear actionable steps. If you are ready for a transformation, watching her videos or reading her books will be a step in the right direction. This video is titled, “The 4 Things You Should Do Before December 31st”. Here is the link.

Now I am a little different so I am going to jump around on my answers. I am also going to tweak my 4 things to fit me. The last thing that Lisa listed was to go to 6 people who affected your life in a positive way this past year, look them in the eye and give them the accolades they deserve. I have decided that I will deliver/mail handwritten cards to my 6 individuals. A couple of people don’t live here so it would make sense to send them cards. Now I just have to find my booklet of stamps. I never know where it is when it is time to mail something.

Another 1 of the 4 things is to set micro goals that you would like to accomplish within a 90 day time span. These 90 day goals should be realistic and doable. Don’t set yourself up for failure. Please only give yourself goals that can be accomplished on this short amount of time. My macro goal is to be completely debt free within two years. Whenever I look at that goal I feel overwhelmed. I know that it is achievable but how? Well Lisa’s idea to break things down into 90 day goals really resonated with me. Now I am determined to list a few debts that I would like to pay off within 3 months. Pay them off, pat myself on the back and list a few more for the next 90 days. By the end of two years, I will have micro wins to celebrate and a debt free life. I feel the relief already and I haven’t even started yet. Lol. This is just my example. Applied this to the areas that matter the most to you. I know that you can do it and I am cheering for your successes. If it is not too much to ask or too personal, please share some goals that you would like to achieve within the first 90 days.

I am a true, undeniable introvert. I always make time to rejuvenate myself or I won’t be worth shit to anyone. My job requires my full attention and presence in the moments that I am there. When I am not at work, I’m usually at home. This for me is rejuvenating. I get to clear my head, crochet and read. Things that I love to do. I also get massages monthly. I am about self-care. This is something that I have been aware of and will continue into the new year. Thank you Lisa for pointing this one out and letting me know I’m doing something right in this life.

Lastly, my 10 wins. When I was telling a friend about this video, I pointed out that it should be fairly easy for her to come up with 10 things. I think I spoke too soon. I struggled a little after 5 wins. I’m not sure if I was too busy looking for major wins or if I just didn’t do anything of value with my life past the first 5 wins. I was able to complete 10 after racking my brain for a day. I hope that it is easier for you all to get to 10. I will say don’t be too humble or modest about your accomplishments. Give yourself the credit you deserve. And if you truly can’t find 10, set a goal to make sure this coming year, you will end with 10 plus. Just think if you accomplish at least 2 micro wins in 90 days, you will have 8 in the bag. Here is a few of my 10.

1. Started my blog. This is the one thing that I am most proud of this year. Yay me!!

2. Got a passport. Then…

3. Used it to travel to Cancun with 3 of my good good girlfriends. Lol. Where I…

4. Parasailed with 2 of them.

5. Decided to truly love and accept myself unconditionally.

6. I recently applied for a position that did take me completely out of my comfort zone. Even though I did not get selected for the job, I am proud that I put myself out there.

I really hope that you watch this video. It’s less than 5 minutes. I am truly obsessed with Lisa Nichols. Her story, her story, her story. It is phenomenal. She is inspirational, motivational and transformational. Lisa has a YouTube channel where she does video logs called Motivating the Masses. She also has a few videos roaming around on YouTube that may speak to someone’s life or situation right now. I highly recommend for you to check her out. She has written a few books as well. Right now I am leisurely reading Abundance Now: Amplify Your Life and Achieve Prosperity Today with my book club. They need to step their game up or I am going to keep reading ahead without them.

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I would just like to say thank you to everyone that voted, shared my video and supported me in any way throughout the competition for CEO. My team was not selected as part of the top 100 to continue pursing this once in a lifetime job. I was a little disappointed. But life goes on and God will present new opportunities for me to continue to help me grow. I look forward to each new development. Thanks again

Merry Christmas 2017

Merry Christmas to all. Thank you for your support and continued observation of this here blog. May your day be filled with whatever your heart desires. Enjoy!